What If?

What happens is the only thing that could have happened.

Sometimes it's so hard to make decisions that can / do matter what our future will look like. So often the "wise" choices are so far from what our heart really wants. One thing is for sure, there are no bad choices. The path we follow and the events we choose are what they should be.

"What happens is the only thing that could have happened"

Nothing, absolutely nothing, that happens to us could have happened a different way. This applies to even the smallest details. There is simply no such thing as - if I had done it differently then everything would have turned out a different way. No, because what happened is the only thing that could and must have happened for us to learn lessons that will allow us to go on. All the individual situations that happen to us in life are perfect in themselves, even if our minds and ego refuse to accept them.

Following your heart has no type of rules; this you can / this you can not. There are no rules you have to follow strictly. Allowing a range of opportunity, respected places that each of us chooses. No judge for what you feel, allows the emotions to flow, then letting blossoms what is individual and beautiful in each of us.

Don't be mean to yourself! Love yourself as you wish to be loved!

How often do you catch yourself thinking, and what if? And now ask yourself again how much are these questions needed in your life?

“When a person chooses one option among many, all the paths that are not taken go out like candles, as if they had never existed” -Philip Pullman

with love Anna