Love and relationships & with self and others

To not get lost in humanness but to be aware of being human.

And I will say again, sometimes all u need it's a bit of „me time”, a little dance, a little run, a good podcast, a favorite playlist on a random drive, a taste of coffee, a quiet place, a nature spot, or a little cute date with yourself, to let it be as it is without rushing things out. Letting yourself be aware of what the present situation is, to meet the version of you for who you are today, for who you are now. Happy people aren't the ones with the hardest discipline but the one who takes care of themselves like they would of someone they love.

"Mastery of life is not a question of control but of finding a balance between human and being”

Human alone is never enough, no matter how hard you try or what you achieve. Human will always need something/someone to depend on to feel fulfilled. Then there is a being. It is found in the still, apart presence of consciousness itself, the consciousness that you are. Human is form, being is formless. human and being are not separate but interwoven - weaving together. The human can be seen by being. The being can’t be seen by human, it can be felt. In the depth of your truth and presence. And only beyond form, in being, are you equal, and only when you find formless dimension in yourself can there be true love in relationship with yourself, with others, and with the world. To love is to recognize yourself in another. Not of the level of form but on the level of being. „Love is recognition of oneness in the world of duality”.

And as a human, we live in so many forms and the truth is that to some people, you are the beauty standard. To others, you are simply overlooked. To some, you are a genius at your craft. To others, you are irrelevant. To some, you are an incredible friend. To others, you are a complete stranger. To some, you are a life partner. To others, you are not someone they'd even date. To some, you are a teacher. To others, you are a student. To some, you are a guide. To others, you are a beginner. To some, you are a shining light. To others, you reveal their darkness. The reality is that you exist in so many different forms and images and beliefs and stories--and yet, the only one that is ever really going to matter is the one you tell yourself and the one that is beyond all forms that are taken.

People understand you from their level of perception, it is your responsibility to know exactly who you are and not get lost in what they are projecting onto you. Even when your answer is „I don’t know who I'm ” it's still the answer that maybe is enough. It's your responsibility to hold the space for yourself whenever you need to. Let the listening be your secret skill because deep down you just know what’s right for you

Once you figure out who you are and what you love about yourself. It all kinda falls into the place.